Hello

I'm not exactly sure where I got the idea that writing about all this on the internet was such a good idea. But here goes.

I am, by nature, a submissive person. I knew from a young age that I wasn't as aggressive as my friends, and I liked being helpful and avoiding conflict. When I started dating, I realized I preferred to take a submissive role in relationships and sex. To this day, I work in a profession where caring and empathy are essential skills.

My wife is not a submissive person. She knows what she wants. She is ambitious, talented, and extremely intelligent. She is a bit of a brat. She likes having all the answers, and being the best at whatever she does. When she started dating, she quickly found that her ideal boyfriend was one who would make her feel like a princess.

The dominant/submissive dynamic has been a key part of our relationship. We knew vaguely what was happening between us, and over the years came to better understand it. We recognized it, talked about it, and read about it on the internet. I hope others will read this blog and will be better able to understand how a dominant/submissive dynamic might be happening in their own lives.

As time has passed, we have grown and developed in our dynamic. My wife is now the leader of our relationship, meaning that I submit to her authority unless specifically told to do otherwise. I'll discuss exactly what that looks like in a later post. She has held final authority over large decisions that normally couples would share, such as what part of the country we live in, whether and where I attend graduate school, and what career I will pursue when I am done with school.

Each time she has exercised this authority, I have become more satisfied with our relationship, because by bending to her will, I have created harmony and agreement in our relationship. These things are more important to us than whether I get into the very fanciest grad school.

I think my main goal with this blog is for others to see how this dynamic works in a real-life relationship. Some of it is definitely about sex (awesome sex, btw), some of it is about kink and bdsm, but quite a lot of it is about everyday life.

I have lots of things in mind to write about. Although I'm just getting started, I would love to hear your thoughts. I'm also happy to answer any questions you have about my experience as a submissive, obedient husband. I can be reached at lovecherishobey@gmail.com.